Three Rules

Well, I learned this the hard way. 

From now on, I’m going to live by “My Rules”. It’s the only way I know that I will not feel like I have these past couple of months. 

1) Don’t lie to me. One way or another, the truth comes out. 

2) Don’t use me. I will do anything and everything I can for you. But when it’s only one-sided and expected… I’ll pass. 

3) When we both agree that we can TRUST each other and you break that trust… you may NEVER get that trust back. 

Might not be the healthiest way to live your life. But I need to start looking out for myself and taking care of myself. 

I am worth having someone, be it family or friend, treat me with the respect that I give them. 

If you can’t handle these rules, then so be it. 

The New Adventure

A couple of months ago, I started to make some changes in my life. I’ve only told a few people of what I’m doing. Still a little afraid to say it out loud. 

But, I’m getting close to some major changes in my life. I’m I turning 50 in a couple of weeks. And that got my thinking and doing some things to prepare for the next chapters in my life. 

I’m planning a 50th birthday party for myself (more on that later) and in about 60 days, something major is going to happen. 

It’s a good thing, but for right now, I want to keep it to myself. 

For right now, I’m looking at the as a New Adventure. 

Make it a great day!

50 Years of Hits –1999

Here is a hit from 1999.

“Livin’ La Vida Loca” by Ricky Martin

Chocolate Gravy and Biscuits Recipe

I was talking to one of my co-workers and we were talking about cooking and baking. I found out that he likes to bake. By looking at him, you would have never thought he liked to cook or bake.

He asked my if I ever had Chocolate Gravy and Biscuits? I just looked at him like he was talking all crazy. Really Chocolate Gravy and Biscuits??

He said they were a “taste of heaven!”

So, I Googled it and there is such a thing. He told me that I really need to try it because it’s really good.

I found this recipe and I need to try it out. Thanks co-worker!

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Chocolate Gravy and Biscuits

Recipe courtesy of Paula Deen

Total Time: 1 hr
Prep: 20 min
Cook: 40 min

Yield: 8 to 10 servings
Level: Easy
  • 3 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for work surface
  •  2 tablespoons sugar
  •  2 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
  •  1/2 teaspoon baking soda
  •  1/2 teaspoon salt
  •  1/2 cup vegetable shortening, plus more for pan
  •  1 cups buttermilk
  •  1/4 cup melted unsalted butter
    Chocolate gravy, recipe follows
  •  1/3 stick butter
  •  2/3 cup sugar
  •  2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
  •  1/3 cup cocoa
  •  2 cups whole milk
  • Preheat the oven to 450 degrees F.
  • In a medium bowl, combine the flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Cut in the shortening with a fork until it looks like cornmeal. Add the buttermilk, a little at a time, stirring constantly until well mixed.
  • Turn the dough out onto a lightly floured surface. Knead lightly 2 or 3 times. Roll out the dough with a floured rolling pin to 1/2-inch thickness. Cut dough into circles with a 2-inch cutter.
  • Place the biscuits in a greased iron skillet. Gently press down the top of the biscuits. Brush the biscuits with half the melted butter and bake for 14 minutes or until golden brown. Brush the hot biscuits with the remaining butter. Split the biscuits in half and ladle Chocolate Gravy over the hot biscuits.

Chocolate Gravy:

  • Heat butter in a cast iron skillet over low heat. Mix in sugar, flour and cocoa. Slowly pour 1 cup of milk into the skillet and whisk well to remove lumps. Whisk in remaining milk, stirring constantly, until mixture is thick, being careful not to scorch. Serve hot over biscuits.

Broken Trust

I’ve said it before and I’m getting closer and closer to 100% believing it.

I am more disappointed in myself for telling you that I trusted you.

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50 Years of Hits –1998

Here is a hit from 1998.

“One Week” by Barenaked Ladies


I got some good advise from a friend. I’m getting to the point where I’m starting to see it and believe it. I’ve been so stupid!
Let go and let live

What I did is the senerty prayer:

God grant me the serenity 

To accept the things the things I can’t control. Control the thing I can. And the wisdom to know the difference! 

But just let it go and worry about you!! Because that’s all that really matters!!! 

Again, I feel bad for the one I lost trust with and anyone who comes next. 

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